Women, women, women. Are ya’ll tired of being bad bitches yet? Some of you really enjoy acting like the bad bitch that you loudly and wrongly claim to be. Just like some bad dogs (a person who is subservient to another), a fox (a person who baffles or deceives) or a damn otter (a word the LGBTQ use to describe a small, hairy gay man). Based off of these definitions, some of you are precisely that. Humans are obsessed with using these low vibrating words and phrases. Women, wh

Why are rappers always taking guns and drugs to the airport, doing all kinds of socially ignorant things, and going to prison? You’ve noticed how rappers are always involved in and/or succumbing to some violent shooting? Every time a rapper is shot and/or killed, it’s treated as if it is the Hip Hop norm and the RIP’s, the memes and things begin. There have been at least 20 too many rappers, that have gone to the airport with guns and drugs. After a story breaks about how one

LISTEN, if you’re experiencing chest tightness before reading this, you’re probably a horrifying driver. When we are navigating these topsy turvy terrains, with thee occasional, uninterrupted smooth cruise, patience and peace should be the focus. Driving should be one of the most patient easy, breezy experiences we consistently do. It’s treated with such impatience, unconditional love, and hostility. What is all this crazy road rage, going to war with traffic and drivers as s

Law of attraction and/or the Art of Natural Attraction, is your divine birth right and a universal method of focusing on maintaining copious amounts of high vibrations and happy thoughts so that you will stay in alignment with everything that feels good to you. A few tried and true ways of doing this is by meditating, appreciating, breathing, and simply finding pure thought processes to keep you feeling good mind, body, and spirit, no matter what is happening around you. This

Till this day, I like many women, still watch reruns of the iconic Sex and the City. It’s one of those shows you can just have playing in the background like music, because it feels good, it’s familiar, and it’s fun. If that’s what you’re into. Some people play scary, ghost and demon possession movies in the background all day. Sex and the City had a few heavy moments, but it was mostly just sex and the city. Even though there were never any leading Woman characters that look

There have been a plethora of videos and stories in heavy circulation in the mainstream media recently, that are attempting to trigger the fear in Women that we aren’t safe and are at risk at the gas station, at the park, or anywhere. This was written to dispel all that bullshit and of course, provide another perspective. Now is definitely not the time for Feminine energy to adapt to fear. Recently, one of the videos on IG orchestrated a woman (the video was captured on her f

Is your hair really that hard to style and nurture or are you just lazy? Why is every fucked up wig better then your own hair? What does a protective style protect from and why aren’t Black Men using the same excuses when they wear their natural curls and kinks? These are my questions. I attended the Curl Fest recently, which is a festival that originated in Brooklyn, New York. It was created by four brilliant Women who had only been corresponding via email before finally lin

Are you a selfish communicator? Are you paying attention? Are you definitive with what you say? Do you even really be saying anything? These are the questions.  First things first! Greet people when you first engage with them. Genuine greetings seem to be becoming a lost art, a lost thing to do. It's not going to break your back to ask someone how they are doing and if everything is ok in their world. "Wyd" is not equivalent to a "How are you doing?" Secondly: Stop demandin

Why are there talking animals in what we know as Africa in the Lion King? Why are all the other Disney Princesses in their country of origin? Why do we care about the Lion King or Disney? These are the questions. Now I know Beyoncé, Donald Glover, the legendary James Earl Jones and Alfre Woodard and an amazing cast have marketed this movie to truly appeal to US. However, you do know in the countries that don't speak English, they have an entirely different cast doing the voic

Now didn’t they tell you Don't Mess With Texas and H Town is where it goes down? On Tuesday, legendary, “Trill OG” MC, Bun B showed a burglar what they were talkin’ bout. Authorities say that Bun B’s wife, Angela “Queenie” Walls, heard the doorbell ring and expecting an Amazon package, she opened the door without checking. That’s when masked suspect, DeMonte Jackson, pointed the gun at her head and forced himself inside the home. In fear of her and her husbands life, she plea

Kontrol Homme had the pleasure of having an in depth conversation with the brilliant and legendary stage, Broadway, film, and television Actor, Harry Lennix. We all know Mr. Lennix from either playing a boss, being one of the bosses, or thee boss in most of his roles. Harry has a long and very successful resume in entertainment from starring in Black culture classics like The Five Heartbeats and Love & Basketball, to blockbuster films like the Matrix, Man of Steel, and Batman

What does let a man be a man mean? Do Men let Women be Women? Why are Men always equating weakness to pussy? You’ve heard them talk. “Man, you such a pussy!” What does that mean? Why is there so much talk about Women's crazy emotions and no conversation about Men's delicate ego? These are the questions. Women need to let these fuckboys fuck themselves and cancel the culture of any toxic masculinity by tuning back into our femininity. It’s a divine time for Women to return to

I’ve been blocked by so many people, sometimes it shocks me. I get too caught up in responding to them, that I forget to get the evidence before they block me. Just like in part one, the images throughout this blog will be of the pages I am blocked by. When you're blocked by someone, it will say User Not Found. I will be revealing who I was blocked by TWICE recently and this time, I have the screenshot of that celebrity responding to me. In the future if I get blocked and the

Have you ever wondered what titillates a troller? What makes a troller fixate on something on social media and take the time during their day to go back and forth? Have you ever wondered what a person could do to have a celebrity see their shit in the comments and then block the hell out of that person? Well, as the most unknown and undefeated troller, I’m here to confess some of my trolling stories with you. I wish I would have thought to screenshot more of the responses I h

What a delicious time to be a SLUT! If you’re unfamiliar with the healthy Slut wave that has hit Atlanta, this is a wonderful time to take the pipe. Slutty Vegan is a delicious, plant based, Black Woman Owned burger restaurant that I had the pleasure of tasting at the 2018 Sneakerball in December. I was volunteering and I didn’t get the chance to be sluttified until the end of the night. Slutty Vegan had already had their final count for the evening, but I begged the Slutty V

Why aren’t Black People/Diaspora Africans living in America more upset about the casual use of nigger? Why are Black People always accepting of the bullshit? Why are Black People willing to give away their culture and respect? Why don’t Asians get harassed? Why is the gay community always bullying people from their level of discrimination and Black people aren’t? These are the questions. The LGBTQ people do not play around. If you say one thing wrong about them, it’s a wrap

The season finale was a simultaneous 30 days fast forward in the lives of the main characters. That gentrification symbolism is deep and happening everywhere. From Inglewoood to I Wood?? I don't even like how it's spelled. We hella need to support Black Businesses in Black neighborhoods. All Black Everything. 1. 30 Days with nearly gentrified Lawrence and after seeing Issa at the marathon while running with new bae, things get hectic. We finally learned the name of the slave

I am so hella disrespectfully late with this recap, but I don't think I should miss recapping just because my Sunday, Monday and Tuesday were incredibly busy with performances, networking, and working at Black World Books. Anyways, this episode comes right after Issa got her eye shot up after fellatio. See what I did there. 1. Molly is sooo extra! Where was she going to get the 'cum bags' to bomb Daniels house with though? I love my friends and I'm always down, but I'm going

Ya'll know Yvonne Orji is a virgin in real life? So yes she's doing some amazing acting during these sex scenes she's been in while on this show! I wonder does acting out these intense scenes make the virgin struggle that much harder? I love that there are women out here that still value that though! These women need to be glorified! Not the Amber Heauxs and Kim Karsmashians. Just my opinion, lets get to the recap though! 1. Molly and Dro have a hella awkward after action con

Well, we are at the halfway mark of Insecure Season 2. Why is the season only 8 episodes still? I thought that was just the pilot season amount and they are still on that. At least make it 10 episodes! Sheesh! 1. Issa couple! Or nah. I guess Daniel and neighbor bae are in her 'Hoetation'. Smh. Daniel is about to catch super feelings and Issa just not in the feelings spirit. Issa is a bonafied, certified, can't deny it hoe right now, let her tell it. 2. Regina Hall is still do